Does anyone else feel like this about their house?
We moved in 6+ years ago with the very naive thought that this house would be our forever home and would only be a very small project, (redecorating mostly). In reality it is a money pit and renovations are still very much ongoing.
I don’t like the area anymore, and DH commutes 2hrs per day to and from his work, so it’s not even particularly convenient for that.
The DCs are settled at a good school, and like the area, so moving isn’t really an option (youngest DC has just started primary school), but I often find myself on rightmove hoping that ‘the dream house’ will come up somewhere, and justify uprooting everyone...
Money still needs to be spent on the house, (which we still need to save up for), and I flit between wanting to renovate to suit us, or to renovate in a style that will resell most easily. I also often wonder whether it’s worth spending any money on the house at all, and whether saving for another house would be a better option.
Our DCs have only ever known living in a house mid renovation, and we’ve put lots of other things on hold to try and facilitate the renovations. We have always seemed unlucky and have had numerous issues with tradespeople.
That being said, I am attached to the house, because of the memories with the DCs mostly, and the dream I had when we moved in of what it could have been (before I knew about all the issues), so I am just like a broken record continually flitting between love and hate. I’ve had many many conversations with DH about it, and most of the time there is no answer really. We did once decide we were going to move, but I then instantly worried that we would accidentally move to somewhere worse, and I would regret moving and uprooting the DCs, so we stayed put.
I just feel like buying this house has had some positives, but has largely tainted our lives since we bought it, and I now regret buying it in the first place.
I wonder if any one else has felt/ is feeling like this? And if you’ve managed to rationalise it and move forward in some way?
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onthecraggyside · 21/02/2021 10:56
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