I am a single parent, getting ready to find their own places in the next year or so. My neighbours on either side are retired (took early retirement, are fit and active). Since both sides have retired they have become very friendly - in each others houses and gardens a lot. I have always been pleasant and considerate to all my neighbours but as I work long hours and am busy I have never really got involved with any of them. I take in parcels and my kids have always been quiet, polite and well behaved. Since the neighbours on both sides have taken early retirement they have become increasingly intrusive and bossy (I feel, my kids agree, its not just me). If the kids mates visit and park their car in the lay-bys in the cul de sac (that are there for anyone to use, even people who dont live here, there is no restriction) one of the neighbours (the men not the women) come to the door and demand they are moved. We have been 'told off' for "encouraging' another neighbours cat by talking to her and stroking her when she comes in our garden. Both sets of neighbours talk to each from their gardens over my garden. The male on one side has always been 'odd' - not my words but those from other people. We hear him shouting at his wife a lot and the way he speaks to her in my opinion is horrible. My daughter and I wonder if his wife is OK but we dont feel that is any of our business. My daughters and I feel that when we go between house and car he glares at us as if to try and intimidate us. Sometimes I think all this is because I am a single parent (when my ex lived here I didnt have this problem). Soon I will be here on my own and I do feel intimidated and anxious and that I can do nothing but move - utterly helpless in this situation. I am anticipating feeling lonely when the kids go but I dont think that is what this is about - I have brought them up to be independent and want them to have their own lives/friends and partners. They are great, I get on with their partners and know that when they move out they won't be far and will always be there for me.I would appreciate any comments and perspectives.
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