Hi all,
Wonder if anyone has any advice. We have lived in this house with the same neighbours for over 15 years. They've always been nice enough, but quite 'selfish', they make a lot of noise and are constantly doing work to their house without considering the affect it might have on us.
I have attached a diagram to try and explain. We live in the countryside, and our house had no parking as it fronts directly on to a lane. Sometime in the 1950s, a small plot of land was bought off a farmer, bordering our neighbours house for the use of parking/small extra garden. So if you look at the diagram, it is my house, neighbour, neighbour's garden, then my small plot of land for parking our cars.
Recently, our neighbour has bought a huge chunk of land off the farmer's widow to extend their garden. This includes land directly behind the garden attached to our house. So if you look at the diagram, our small back garden is now engulfed by their back garden. We didn't know this was happening until almost overnight the land was fenced off and included into their now huge garden. Obviously this is not ideal, but what can you do eh. It just means that we have less privacy now, as our wall is low to let in light into the garden. Now all our windows overlook their new garden where they have a shed, trampoline, dining table etc, all very nice.
Anyways, the main problem is with the neighbours is that they come on to our land without permission. I was sat in the garden the other week, and my neighbour just wandered into our back garden by climbing over the fence so he could 'cut the hedge'. They've asked to knock down the old stone boundary wall between our garden and theirs because they want a modern wooden one, which we've said no. We came back from holidays and they'd removed a piece of downpiping from the gutters as they said it was superfluous to demand. Lo and behold, we now have damp coming in where we never used to.
Now on to the extra plot of land. The neighbours always walk onto the land for no apparent reason. They come on to the land and climb our fence to go over the field, rather than walk the 50m to the gate. We have told them not to please as it is damaging the fence, but they still do it. I watched them just yesterday from a window where the neighbour was looking about to see if we were watching him before climbing over the fence!
Next issue. We live in the country so rely on oil heating. I overhead a conversation between neighbour and oil company person who was delivering about moving their oil tank. They want to move the oil tank down to the very bottom left of their garden, adjoining our extra plot of land. They have a garage in front of this section, and so the only way to get oil into the tank if it was moved here would be via our land! (They haven't asked yet-but it would be no!)
Do people have advice on how to deal with these issues without falling out with the neighbours?
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Neighbours always coming onto our land
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spanishflat · 23/05/2020 21:55
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