I was living with my boyfriend for 16 years until he left. He never had his deatails on the mortgage but we went halfs on everything. We never married or was engaged. He probalby paid a little more overall because he earns more than me and he did the kitchen and the bathroom up. I dont earn much. He still pays the direct debits and half the mortgage as he says it is still half his house. Now he wants some money out of the house. Not half but £60k which is well well under half. He has instructed solicitors but I have so far ignored the letters. He now says that if he goes through solictors instead of mediation with me - which I dont want to do - he will go for half as it will cost the same. I dont know if I can actually afford the house on my own, but I dont want to sell, but I can't afford to add £60k to the mortgage. Has anyone got good sound advice for me please
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