Nosey landlord

(14 Posts)
emmapenny Thu 15-Sep-16 12:09:50

I live in a private rented house. My landlords mother is driving slowly by my house every week an staring in the window. I have 3 kids here 1 is only a baby.
A few times she has drove by I have been changing my son or dressing him after a bath. This is stressing me so much I want to move. Am I being silly?

Pinkerbeller Thu 15-Sep-16 12:35:34

Sounds like she's over invested in making sure you're not running a brothel / crack den / burning the place down on behalf of her DC. I'd give her a wave (assuming you're not actually doing any of those things grin)

WatchingFromTheWings Thu 15-Sep-16 12:36:31

Put up a pair of net curtains at the window. She won't be able to see a thing!

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Thu 15-Sep-16 12:40:38

She's checking the property, unless she's got her nose up against the window she's allowed to do it.

You must have your own head out of the window to notice her while bathing/ dressing your son!

Get a blind / draw the curtains and don't give it another thought.

Tiggeryoubastard Thu 15-Sep-16 12:45:12

How can she be looking through your windows from a car in the road? And that isn't your landlord.

emmapenny Thu 15-Sep-16 12:46:07

Pinkerbeller lol not doing any of the above. I have been very stressed since I had my son and he was very ill at 3 months with pneumonia my health visitor says I have pnd but I'm just stressed an I just want to live in peace.
Watchfromthewings I have blinds up.

Mybeardeddragonjustdied2016 Thu 15-Sep-16 12:46:41

Next time just tell the kids to wave to her! Once she realises she has been spotted she will prob bugger off!

Tiggeryoubastard Thu 15-Sep-16 12:47:12

Ffs if you have blinds (I assume vertical) she can't see in from that distance.

emmapenny Thu 15-Sep-16 12:50:26

My bathroom is downstairs I have to pass the front door and my living room window is about 2 foot from the floor, road is about 8foot from the house it's hard not to see someone driving by slowly.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Thu 15-Sep-16 12:50:30

You are living in peace. Sorry you're poorly but you're making a mountain out of a mole hill.

BigginsforPope Thu 15-Sep-16 12:52:41

I think you do need to either ignore her or as other posters have suggested give her a friendly wave. In our previous rented house the landlord got himself a paper round delivering the free ads paper in our street. Next door often used to see him having a nosy in the back garden when we were out.

ShiroiKoibito Thu 15-Sep-16 13:48:29

why have you got 3 threads?

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emmapenny Thu 15-Sep-16 13:55:03

Shiroikoibito I had tried to ask but it didn't show up 1st 2 times and I thought it hadn't posted,I'm new to this and couldn't understand how I couldn't see the posts

Moonrocks6 Thu 15-Sep-16 14:03:22

I can see where you are coming from and would find it difficult to relax if I felt that I was being checked up on all of the time.
They're not technically doing anything wrong but I wouldn't be comfortable with it.
Is the house rented through an agency? Could you have a chat with them?

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