Hi Waily-how are you getting on?
I love in Truro, love, it, it really is a great place to raise a family and lots going on for older children. but lots as changed here in recent years re schools: primary wise St Mary's is the best, I would stay away from Bosvigo and AB Benson is church oriented and their selection is done this way so not for everyone (parking a nightmare at drop off so awful unless you're on foot). Secondaries: Penair has only hung on to the new HT for a year so the school is looking for another one, it will be a few years of change at that school so probably not ideal for a child of 15 to come to. RLS is right next to the college- if your DS is expected to do A levels this is where they will go as none of the Truro secondaries do them. I have experience of both and my eldest is currently at RLS, v happy and cannot say enough to recommend it.
Re: location while We wanted rural living several years ago, now I am v pleased to be in .truro we spend much less time than friends in villages trekking round fetching and carrying. Depending on preference there is cinema, skate park in town and a bunch of organisations/clubs from canoeing, to art to tennis, football. Any kind of sport in fact!
In the city, there will be a lot of disruption around the Waitrose development, traffic already hideous this side of town and the queues are already noticeable. The shop will open late next year but will be a couple of years before the development is complete
Some great roads of Lemon .st and not too far for you to get to work - and handy for kea or Devoran schools as this side of town- look at Daniell road, higher Redannick, these are close to a fab park that is well used locally, it is a lovely local community. Also check out barrack lane and the houses off Falmouth road to the left - might not be your thing but another space with lots of families. Trehaverne (close to st Mary's school) might work too., few houses have parking but most of the city is residential permit now so congestion much less of a problem.
I would really recommend you speak to Pete Madsen at Hus Estate Agents, they have a good locAl knowledge, it is an independent agency and both owners have good selection of properties. V user friendly website too.
Devoran is fab, v pretty but pricey. Playing place and Carnon are changing away from the elderly demographic but not much going on there. Much overlooked, but if I was going to be out of .truro I would pick Chacewater, a great community, brilliant primary with after school care and lots of families with kids of all ages - and useful things like post office, corner shop, bakery/pasty shop and pub :)
If you were in .truro looking for a village school I would look at kea, then Chacewater, then perran-ar-Worthal.
There were a few threads on MumsNet Local: Cornwall re: relocating in 2014, might be worth a quick read for you?
I returned to Cornwall after many years away- considered myself local but how wrong I was when it came to buying a house! Happy to help you so please PM me if you want some local knowledge