We have recently put our apartment on the market which has had a lot of interest and a few offers which seem to be increasing. Me and DH decided to go and view houses last weekend, and well we both argued like mad afterwards about what we were after!
I assumed we would fall for the same kind of house, traditional semi or nice terraced. I immediately fell in love with a 1930s red brick semi, an elderly couple are in it and it indeed needs a heck of a lot of updating (new bathroom, kitchen etc). DH has however just dismissed it saying there's too much work!
The problem is I have fallen in love with it already and have mentally moved in. I know exactly what the bathroom is going to be like and the kitchen. DH is wanting a house ready to move in, which is not my thing as it won't be to my taste!!
It has got to the point where DH won't even discuss it further. He says it will cost too much to do up (I don't think it will and I also know it will add loads of value to the property in a few years to come - neighbouring house that is a bit more modern is £80K more)
Anyways... I know this may seem like a non problem to many but how do I get DH to compromise? I don't want this house to disppear from our grasp and I can just see me saying no to every other house wanting him to cave him. I have even suggested viewing again and getting quotes on the improvements to make him feel easier about costs. He's still not interested...
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We can't agree on a house!!!! HELP
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BumWad · 03/03/2014 20:01
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