Foundation recommendations

Hi! So I need some foundation recommendations. I used to swear by revlon colorstay but they changed it a few years ago and it's just not doing it for me anymore. I like double wear but it can be a bit drying and it's expensive but I use on special occasions.

I think my skin has changed lots recently, I had my little boy last July which changed my skin I think and the lines are creeping in so I think it's partly that! But I've always had oily skin and liked good coverage, anything dewy makes my pores stand out loads. So can anyone recommend any foundations that have good coverage, forgiving on fine lines and will control the oil without making me look flat?! I've tried no.7 beautifully matte, L'Oréal infallible matte, elf lasting finish and don't like them. I was thinking about bourjois healthy mix but don't know if that's too dewy?! Thanks