Hi
We didn't get the primary school we wanted for DS but have been offered a place at another school instead. We went to view the school and all was good until the head said they only have one intake - full time in September.
My DS is only going to be 4 at the end of July and we were going to delay his school start until January 2011 (had we been successful in getting the other school). To complicate things, I am due to give birth to child number 2 in the first week of September......
I mentioned this to the head who was very reluctant for us to delay his school start - she talked about the fact that all the other children will have formed bonds and that my DS will come along in January and find it hard to infiltrate the groups etc .....
My reasons for wanting to delay the start (apart from the fact it is my legal right not to send him until the term after his 5th birthday!!) are that I don't want to give birth one day (new sibling - big change) and then pack him off to school the next (new school - another big change). I just feel that would be too much change for him all at once.
Does anyone else have experience of either scenarios e.g. had baby one day, sent child to school for the first time the next OR delayed sending to school - if so, how did child get on with forming friendships etc.
I'm worried about what is the best thing to do ... my instinct says wait, but the head painted a picture of my little man sitting on his own at lunchtime with no chums!!!!!
Thanks in advance and thanks for listening to my ramble ...... x
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MrsOB · 04/06/2010 13:25
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