Hi, my daughter is in reception. She's 4.7. She is being assessed as she has a speech disorder and apparently the developmental age of 3 years 4 months.
She is a very happy, socialble child who loves life and is interested in everything.
I spoke to her consultant the other day, who's itallian and she basically said that if she lived in any other country, she wouldn't even be at school now. She went on to mention the new findings that say there is no benefit from starting formal teaching early ect.
I know this is right, and at the moment she is learning through play at school.
I just wondered what would happen if she did live in a different country, would they do anything about her speech problems or deveopment, or would they just let her develop on her own until 6 or 7 ?
I feel that at the moment she's being pushed with speech therapy and assessments etc and talk of extra help etc.
Part of me thinks she's still a baby though! I just want to give her the time and space she needs to develop naturally. I'm not sure what it means when they say she's about 14 months behind, don't children of this age vary considerably? she might just be a slow starter.
At home we play games, make up storys together, role play, sing, dance and have lots of fun. I read to her all the time too. I feel that I'm doing my best to give her a happy and enriched childhood. Is this enough though? Do you think she'll develop just as well in her own time, or does she really need speech therapy, extra tuition etc? I know with the way the education system is at the moment, children can fall in to the catogorys of winners and loosers. I don't want my happy, sociable little girl seing herself as a looser accademically.
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My 4 year old daughter is apparently 1 year 2 months behind developmentaly, What would be done in other countrys where she wouldn't be starting school until 6 or 7 ??
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mummyloveslucy · 25/10/2009 19:21
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