dd is having trouble with a girl in her class.
This child's mother has already had a word with dd (in the playground) to tell dd that she is very disappointed in us because they had dd round to play (years ago) and we never reciprocated (ffs). I don't even remember this but as dh and I both work, it's very possible that we forgot.
2 days ago, this girl was teasing dd and told dd she was stupid. So dd retaliated by saying 'well I'm not as stupid as you'.
This girl then ran to the teacher and said dd was calling her stupid. Dd got absolutely hauled over the coals and was told not to belittle other children just because she believed she was brighter than them. Dd tried to tell her teacher what had happened but was given short shrift and told not to interrupt.
This has obviously affected her because she wouldn't go to bed tonight and was really upset that the teacher wouldn't listen. This isn't the first time something like this has happened and the teacher has reacted this way.
I then heard (via the grapevine, so unconfirmed) that the parents of said child had gone to the headteacher and complained that their child is being picked on by dd (and others in her class) because she isn't white and English isn't her first language so she isn't as good at reading etc. and they are fed up with her being labelled stupid. But dd swears (and I do believe her), that this child is deliberately goading her and others quite a lot.
I did have a word with her about retaliating the way she did and how she really shouldn't use the word stupid anyway, even if it is just saying something back to someone and she did listen and understand.
I was thinking about going into the school but not sure it would achieve anything?
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Trouble with another child who is always given the benefit of the doubt by the teachers seemingly because of her parents?
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peckhambeckham · 14/10/2009 21:56
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