Dd is year 5 now.
She had a number of health problems as a baby/toddler but as she has got older, she has outgrown these but she still has reflux (as has everyone else in the family) and asthma/allergies.
She found year 1 v tough (she couldn't write and in fact didn't till year 2) so quite often, she would tell the teacher she was going to be sick and get sent home. After she had done this on one day in each week, 5 weeks in a row where it was quite clear to me she wasn't sick at all , I went into the school and asked them to stop sending her home because she was pulling a fast one.
We haven't really had an issue since then though she has had time off for proper illnesses but I know she has chanced her arm a few times.
Roll on to year 5 and I can tell she is finding the going a bit tough. There's a lot of writing she has to do and she still finds that a struggle. So for the last couple of days, she has been sent home from school because she's told them she's going to be sick (she knows this is a sure fire winner) but there's no sign of illness at all and I know she's not unhappy.
Dd is sharp cookie, a really sharp cookie - one of those children who applies herself when she wants to, will figure out the way a system works then figure out a way round it iyswim. For example, she gets homework on a Thursday. If she brings her homework book back on a Thursday, the nanny makes her do her homework that night so dd just doesn't bother to bring it back. That sort of thing. And the other day, for her homework, she had to write 10 sentences with wow words so she will write 3 word sentences so that she gets away with doing as little as possible. She is the sort of child that really frustrates teachers.
So really my question is, do other children do this? I have a way of managing it now but tbh (shhhh) I was like this as a child and was sort of hoping neither of mine would be like this. I am completely supportive of the school btw. (Also because of her reflux, she does get nausea and rising acid like we all do so that is a factor).
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Does anyone else have a child who pulls 'sickies' from school?
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foxinsocks · 14/10/2009 08:11
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