Dd is 4 and started reception just over 2 weeks ago. Last week I got a call from the school asking me to take up some knickers because she'd had an accident. Since then she's done a poo in her knickers twice but not told the teacher. Today she told me she'd done it before lunch so her bum was quite sore. When I asked her why she won't tell the teacher she said she didn't know. I asked her if she was told off last time and she said no but when I asked her if she was worried about being told off she said yes.
As a background she used to do this all the time and was diagnosed with constipation with overflow soiling so it was just happening and she didn't realise. She's been taking Movicol since March and was doing really well with no soiling incidents for about 2 months before she started school. So I can only think it's something to do with being anxious as she gets a bit overwhelmed with the new surroundings and all the bigger kids etc.
I'm going to talk to the teacher or ta to find out if there's anything they can do. I know they're busy with 19 other children and don't have time to keep checking if she needs to go to the toilet (especially as she doesn't like going on her own) or if she needs changing. So I don't really know how they'll be able to deal with it. Does anyone have any experience of this or any suggestions for how we can overcome this?
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Age 4 dd keeps soiling her knickers at school but won't tell anyone.
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katalex · 30/09/2009 16:36
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