Can anyone help me with this issue, which i find a bit of a minefield?
My DS is 5 next week, and while he's done very well academically at school, I think it's fair to say that socially it's been pretty tough for him. As one of the youngest in the year, he's quite immature and sensitive (and cries easily), and some of the older kids seem streets ahead in confidence.
He definitely hasn't made a best friend, per se, but seems to be on the fringes of a couple of groups. Sometimes he says the others say he cannot play with them, which is heart breaking, but I don't think this is a constant thing. Occasionally during the year he's vaguely mentioned children coming back to the house, but when questioned further he seems less keen, so I haven't pushed it. To be honest, he seemed so exhausted after school for such a long time that I think he was quite relieved to just be at home and relax, if you see what I mean. Personally, I find play dates really stressful and don't enjoy them, but if it helps my ds socially, I must bite the bullet.
I've noticed lately that quite a few of the children my DS has mentioned have paired off with a best friend - does that mean it's best not to ask them for fear of causing offense with their mothers? And seeing as the term is nearly over, should I just leave it until September or will my DS be at even more of a disadvantage if he still doesn't have a particular friend then?
I spend so much time worrying about this. Generally he's a really happy boy who enjoys school - that must be a good thing, surely!
Any advice gratefully received. Has anyone been through this and come out the other side?
Many thanks, in advance
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longingforsleep · 15/07/2009 13:32
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