I posted last week about how my 5 year old is having problems with lack of playmates at playtime. I've obviously been thinking about it a lot over the past week and one suggestion from observing his behaviour with other children is that he gives up easily and will stomp off if things aren't done his way. He's very good at carrying a grudge also. I think this is due to his ridiculously high standards for himself- a common characteristic apparently with a 'brighter' child (top of his class academically but summer born). He gets frustrated very easily if things aren't done properly. I'm wondering if this is translating towards other kids when he plays with them? This can't help in the popularity contest. Instead of realizing things are wrong and trying to correct himself he usually just goes all dramatic and flounces off. Or says 'I can't do it' or something to that effect. We're always telling him not to get discouraged so easily, yes he can do it, etc. But obviously it doesn't seem to sink in.
Any advice or similar experiences? I get so worried about how this is affecting his character long term. Or is it just him?
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littletree · 11/06/2009 10:28
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