My son started reception last week. He was full of confidence and excited. He is only 4. He started with a best friend from his nursery which gave him extra confidence. However, his best friend has another friend who started at the same time and now he has totally rejected my son in favour of this other boy and announces every morning that he is not going to play with my child today. My son is visibly upset by this and is finding it hard to deal with. This boy elbows him out the way and excludes him. My son keeps trying to approach him but just gets rejected all the time. I've told him to stay away from him and play with someone else but he's feeling very insecure and yesterday he cried his eyes out and said he didn't want to go to school anymore without me because he's scared. I know it's sad but I feel resentment towards the boy's mum because she's allowing her child to alienate mine. My son has struck up a friendship with the boy's other friend and that seems to be adding to the jealousy and resentment. It's hard to believe in one and half weeks there is already social politics going on amongst 4 year olds and their mothers. It should be a happy time.
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