As I write this I feel it is too late to be putting out the feelers for advice as I am right in the centre of the situation it may be just too late??? MY dd (Nearly 5) has become extremely anxious surrounding her starting school(She is doing a new 'settling in week'), I know this is normal with the unknown and her age etc. but the build up has just began to take it's toll.
DD is usually very confident and shows no sign of worry.I can't help but feel the schools approach to starting school has only made her worse than ever.They are doing home visits which are otional but I opted to have one so the new teacher came today, with the classroom assistant.It is a laid back visit and i originally liked the idea but my dd's behaviour since the visit has only worsened.a0 she can't understand why not only are all her cousins back at school already, so is her sibling back at nursery and EVERYONE she sees has asked her how school is going.This has led to a big build up of questions in her mind and she simply can't understand why she has been treated differently to all the others, 'special treatment'if you like has increased her anxiety 100%.She has been chewing,despondant(She didn't want to talk about the home visit let alone do the colouring provided!)It has all been too much.(Both her & I just want to get on with it-a bit like 'the good old days'!I plan a day out for fun tomorrow with one of her friends who also hasn't started school in the hope that she won't feel singled out.Any idea welcomed, should i tell the school (I don't want to be one of these parents before I have even got there yet, are there any excersies I could do with her to release the anxiety? do I stop talking about school for now(She goes MOnday) do I focus on her forthcoming birthday party to take her mind off it??She rejected a painting her 3 year old sister did for her today which was upsetting as it was the first time her sibling had offered her anything of her own free will, she said it wa 'scribbly' and didn't want it.This is all jealousy. I dn't want to have to tip toe around dd2 because she is thriving positively in her new nursery class.Any ideas, similar experiences??
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help!! New'settling in scheme' has done my dd no favours and she is more anxious than ever!
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gameforalaugh · 04/09/2008 20:14
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