Hi all I'm not sure whether I'm overreacting here so I'll explain the situation first.
There is a young boy in my dd's class (9y) with suspected autism from what I understand, who has no support from a TA etc. Since school has returned he has become increasingly aggressive towards his classmates, swearing, using the middle finger, shoving, pushing and being defiant and rude towards teachers.
On Monday this culminated in him having a meltdown during class, swearing, shouting abuse, throwing pencils and a bunch of keys at other children, ripping up books and destroying ipads. My dd along with her classmates were initially told to ignore him (my dd was actually told off for looking and threatened with losing a house point!) and then removed from the classroom when he escalated.
While I understand that he was clearly in distress and this was not his fault the situation concerns me as I dont feel it should have got this far or would have had he had the correct support in place.
My personal issues are that as a parent I was not informed about this incident by the school, my daughter was understandably upset but no staff checked with me to see if she was OK, I don't believe she should have been told off for looking (what was she meant to do, wait for something to hit her first then look?) and that when I tried to approach the teacher on Tuesday to speak to her she interrupted me said "yes we are aware children were upset, things are being put in place" and then walked away giving me no chance to discuss my concerns.
Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill?
How would you feel in the situation?
TIA xxx
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foibles2011 · 07/10/2020 11:23
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