Apologies if the title seems harsh. I'm not focusing on coronavirus with this. This is a general issue since she started school. She doesn't concentrate. She loves art and crafts. But often just scribbles on paper. Lately she has started drawing people, flowers, planets etc which is great. But other things I no she can do ... She won't do and at school she's looking behind because of it.
For example she can write her name Olivia. she could for months before school. But she kept coming home with Olva or olila etc on her work. I told the teacher she definitely can write it. They said so far she hasn't. Now she's leaving out the I and writing Olvia alot. In just two days of practice at home she's writing it properly. We've been chalking it on slabs and writing in in her note pad. I'm unsure why she isn't doing it at school.
I've kept learning light and fun and in small amounts. Just 10-30 minutes a day and the rest play. We've had a craft morning too. But I've noticed her lazy efforts coming out and I don't know why she is doing it.
This morning I drew 4 colourful Easter eggs. One had 4,one had 7 and one had 5 dots on. She needed to count the dots and write the number. She can count. She has counted many times. But again at school she just counts really fast without actually thinking and pointing. Her teacher said she will be counting 5 squares but carry on counting and skipping objects if that makes sense. So she will say 1234567 really fast when there's 5. She was doing that this morning with the seven dots. She said 6 then 9. Then she eye rolled at me. I didn't mean to be grumpy but eventually I told her she needed to concentrate and try or people will think she can't do it. She then got it right straight away.
I'm not a nag and she's only 5. But I know she can do these things. She has extra help at school because she doesn't concentrate enough or proove she can do these things.
I do want to keep helping her learn at home. I'm taking this opportunity to give her some 1 on 1. But im finding she often starts eye rolling at 5 minutes. I'm not pushing. I'm not filling the days with work.
She's got wipeable maths and English books.
She's got an orchard spelling game. I thought we would lay out the letters the other day and put them on top of the words written on the cards. She was not focused or interested after 5 minutes.
All children will be behind and need to regain confidence in September when they return to school. Nobody seems to think they will go back to reception. I just wish I could help my daughter focus, think and try a tiny bit more. As I've said I'm not pushing her. It's very minimal work. I'm keeping it fun. I just feel she will end up being held back through laziness.
I presume it's laziness/unable to concentrate yet. I know the teacher said she wasn't ready for phonics etc until recently and now she's picking it up. But now she's home I'm just stuck! I worry she will never get the desire to "impress" people with her work etc.
Anyone have any tips? Otherwise I may have to enquire about her being held back a year and I really don't want that? I'm not even sure if it's a thing? I've seen nursery children trying harder.
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Ghgtyhhd · 28/03/2020 13:40
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