I am not sure if I am posting in the correct place i'm just looking for advice regarding my DS behaviour at school (i'll try not to drip feed).
Since returning to school in January (reception) I am constantly being pulled as is DS father (we are not together) regarding DS not listening and distracting other children. I have found out today that he was put on time out yesterday 3 times for this and the same on Tuesday.
He has also come home with injuries before this from another boy (his best friend) in school which DS said was an accident and the boy in question pushed DS over when DS tried to help him from falling off a seasaw , I have spoken to the school about it and the other mum, I am however aware that my son is not an angel but from what I know he is not malicious and the other mum corroborated this.
I am not sure what more I can do, he has been spoken to (not angrily) and have tried to get DS to understand that when he is in school he needs to listen and do as he is told etc. I have tried taking things away on days when I have been told he has been disruptive (no ipad, there is also a trip to thomas land planned which I have resorted to saying we won't be going to if he is continually disruptive). At home he is a lovely boy but a typical boy and likes being hands on and playing.
for context before christmas holidays he had a nasty chest infection so in total was off school for 2 weeks including the holiday's. Me and his father have been split since he was born so this isn't new, I have however 2 years ago left an abusive relationship and have been living back home with DM, DS loves living with his nanny.
Pulling my hair out and not sure what else to do, of note whilst i remember a few months ago DS would have meltdown's if I asked him to do something like write/scribble his name in a birthday card, on one occasion he cried and took himself off up to his bedroom and refused to do it.
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4 year old son disruptive in school
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Tink1989 · 23/01/2020 11:55
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