We had parents eve recently for DD age 10, year 6. She usually has excellent parents evenings with nothing but praise, she is in top sets.
However this recent parents eve was pretty awful, she has scored very low on a maths test, I’m not sure if it’s a mock SATS test or not. 16 out of 30 when she apparently should be achieving 24 out of 30.
We asked the teacher if it was just the one test, is it possible she was having an off day, and he said yes but if she carries on like this she will be very disappointed in herself in her SATS. The whole appointment was very focussed on this poor result in maths which is fair enough, the teacher did mention in passing that some of her English work was best in the class but then went back to talking about the decline in maths, so the overall appointment felt pretty brutal and DD was in tears by the end. However the teacher did state that she will not be moved down from top maths set over one bad test.
My son had this teacher and he says that it’s his style of teaching, the ‘give them a kick up the bum’ type of approach.
She has been displaying anxiety since this parents evening and it’s manifesting itself in all sorts of things, e.g. crying when she came last at bowling on Sunday as she’s a failure etc. Panicking over homework. It’s a marked difference as she has always been confident in her school work before.
We are trying to address her anxiety at home and have asked school to let us know what she got wrong in the test so we can try and work through it with her. At this point I am more concerned about her wellbeing.
Many of her peers in the top set are tutored but we never really saw a need to do this at the primary stage as SATS are to be a measure of the school. However I am wondering about a tutor for her confidence/wellbeing? Has anyone else experienced similar?
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Year 6 DD declining in maths, awful parents eve. How to address?
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CBGBs · 20/11/2019 12:44
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