I’m looking for some opinions please as we are currently at a loss!
Apologies for the super long post, but I’m also trying to get this all straight in my head along with not missing anything out!
We are currently trying to decide between 2 schools for our son. We have just been offered our first choice school (we were on the wait list) so now need to make a decision. Mentally, we had accepted our offered school, which was our second choice.
We have visited both, done the pro con lists etc. Our head says one school but heart says the other.
One school means a 15 minute drive each way, twice a day. Relatively small school, village location, approx 90 pupils. All our sons current friends will be going to this school. We don’t live where this school is. Change of head teacher coming in September. This was our first choice school. He is currently at the pre school here 2 days a week. Lovely community feel, but I do worry about it possibly being a tad clicky. Average results in terms of maths, reading etc. We love the much smaller class sizes, and feel he may receive more support here. He is very bright, but can be very shy and quiet, and has also had speech & language therapy. He still has some issues and is still under a SAL therapist. They don’t appear as good at parent communication compared to the other school.
The other means a 10 minute walk each way, and is still fairly small compared to others in our area , around 140 pupils total, and in town. Our child won’t know anyone there. We live in the town where this school is. This was our second choice school, but the one we were offered. I worry about this school appearing very clicky. Ofstead rated outstanding. Much better results in maths, reading etc (well above average) . Year sizes are around 20, but increase as they join classes together (years 1,2 & 3 are split between 2 classes, which pupils move around in depending on their individual levels in different areas) . I’ve heard about them putting a lot of pressure on the children for sats, but that was from someone who was there a few years ago, I’m not sure now. Reception class also has Pre school within it, but only on mornings. They appear very good at parent communication & involvement, and lots of inclusive events. School is Roman Catholic. We are not!
Both are great schools. Our head is saying to go with the school that is walking distance In tow. It’s still a relatively small school, and at this age, our son will make new friends, and can still stay in touch with the friends he has already made. But our heart is saying the other school. Both offer similar after school activities. And both had a lovely feel. When we visited, I nit picked about the town school as I was certain I wanted him to go to the village school.
Our son is definitely a quieter type of little boy, who prefers playing with girls rather than boys at Pre school, however there is most definitely an imbalance between girls & boys at Pre school at the moment (approx 4 boys on the days he goes vs 10 girls).
I should add that we have another son who is 18 months old. The town school which we can walk to is more appealing with him in tow, rather than having to drive daily (along with the added cost of driving). Siblings are accepted first at the local school, whereas the village take catchment first before siblings.
Town school is a great feeder to the local grammar school.
We don’t need holiday / wrap around care as I’m a SAHM.
I’m not entirely sure what I’m hoping to gain from this post. It’s helped me to put it down like this, but I suppose I’d quite like an outsiders opinion from people who don’t actually know either school.
My gut isn’t telling me either way.
If you have got to the end of this, thanks so much for reading!
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christmasgeek · 19/05/2019 10:39
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