Chatlune, of course you are entitled to your own opinion about SPCS or any other school, and you have every right to air your opinion on a public forum. But I'm sure you can appreciate that as a parent with almost a decade's experience of the school in question, it is quite frustrating to read posts that repeatedly present factually incorrect information painting SPCS in a negative light, from someone who's never had a child at the school. Far from being "so eager to promote the school", I only began contributing to this thread in order to correct the erroneous information you posted, based on my first-hand experience as a parent at the school.
Your last post says that SPCS no longer releases its 11+ and 13+ leavers' destinations and implies that this has been done deliberately in order to conceal poor results. In fact, the leavers' destination for the last 5 years are publicly available to download from the school's website, and have been ever since the website was redesigned several years ago. The list can be found here:
www.spcslondon.com/about/destinations-of-leavers
The list needs updating to include this year's destinations, which include (off the top of my head for children I know personally):
Westminster
City of London
UCS
Whitgift
Forest
City of London Girls
Rugby
Oundle
King's Canterbury
Dulwich
Highgate
Some of those destinations are more academic than others, but all are academically selective and most offered places to multiple SPCS leavers this year. That is not a set of destinations that a prep school with substandard academics is likely to achieve without a fair bit of luck (and yes, this year's list is typical of previous years). I might add that tutoring is not particularly common at SPCS and I know of more than one pupil who achieved a senior school academic scholarship this year with no tutoring at all.
Out of interest, I searched back through MN for see whether you were "not the first to mention the lack of academic focus at St Paul’s Cathedral School". I couldn't find any posts in the last 10 years from other parents with children at the school who expressed this opinion (quite the opposite), and the vast majority of posters reporting second-hand opinions from family or friends were very positive as well. You may know people who are not happy with the academics at the school, (and I'm sorry to hear that is the case), but this is not a widespread opinion amongst parents with direct experience of the school, nor does the evidence of the leavers' destinations support it.
Opinions on pastoral care can indeed be subjective. Having experienced what poor pastoral care looks like at another school, I am very happy with the level of pastoral care at SPCS. It's not perfect, but I doubt that any school is perfect.
I would urge any parent considering SPCS to visit the school for themselves once open days resume, and form their own opinion. The school has a very special atmosphere that is much easier to gauge in person than from posts on an internet forum. I have absolutely no vested interest in promoting the school beyond the fact that it has done very well by my DCs and for that reason I'm very happy to recommend it warmly to others.