She's 6. I'm not sure if it would be considered bullying as she doesn't go out of her way to target any particular child wanting to upset them but she just isn't very kind in general. I'm sure some of the kids in her class and their parents consider it bullying but the school ha vent used that word yet.
She doesn't seem to care if she upsets someone as long as she's telling the truth, so will point out when someone does something wrong or if she thinks they didn't do well or look good. We've had many conversations about how this isn't kind and how would she feel but she thinks that she wouldn't be upset if someone pointed out that she messed up or lost if she did but she also thinks that she would never lose or mess up.
At school she is constantly in minor trouble for being unkind and made to apologise but because she never causes disruption in class or misbehaves in any other way and always apologises when told to nothing else is done or needed. Lots of parents have complained about her but its seen to be dealt with as dd apologises and they are separated but within a week she will upset another child and within a few weeks will upset the original child again.
What do I do next? Can this still be considered normal behaviour at 6 that she will grow out of or does it need to be taken more seriously right now?
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DD is becoming a bully
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latealready · 30/01/2019 18:28
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