Hi, I’m hoping someone here can advise. I’m told my kid (DS6) is “doing fine” in his Y2 class. I don’t think he’s fine.
Every morning is hell. He puts the duvet over his head and won’t get out of bed. Then there is an hour of “don’t make me go to school mummy, I hate it, I hate
School”. Last night he said that kids were mean to him, nobody likes him, “they” are mean to him at playtime, they call him poo baby etc etc, he runs away and hides, he hopes every day that they will be kind to him but they aren’t, he tries to think of things to say back to them but he always forgets what to say. He does have a good friend with whom he has play dates but he told me that that friend makes fun of him too.
He says the lessons are hard and the day always seems so long. He’s doing fine academically apparently but to be honest that’s the least of my worries.
I said I would talk to the teacher and we would find a way of dealing with it, that we will help him sort it out. This morning he was so sad on the way to school after the usual bribing and coaxing. Mummy can you teach me at home? Can I go to a different school? Etc etc. It is breaking my heart. I’m trying to be brisk and cheerful but it feels like bollocks.
Y1 was bad but just about ok but I’m frankly finding this almost unbearable. I work part-time. I am increasingly anxious about this and finding myself becoming low at home and distracted at work.
I should add that he’s an August birthday. He is the youngest in the year.
I would just like him to be reasonably happy at school somewhere. To not hate going on. That’s it really.
I have spoken to the teacher about the morning struggle and the unhappiness and she says that he is doing ok. I’ve not mentioned what he said yesterday (so far).
I am feeling lost. Should it really be this fucking hard? What can I do?
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hilbobaggins · 20/09/2018 09:59
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