My daughter is a lovely, sensitive little girl. She often looks out for others, shares and it has been commented on how gently she is with some of the kids who have autism at school and who need to be around calm children.
We noticed that she seemed to be making friends who are in primary 1 (her siblings year) or in the year or two above hers. We gently suggested she make friends in her own peer group too. She made a friend in her class who moved away last year.
Tonight she burst into tears telling me how much she missed her friend. She said that the other girls in her class are often mean to her and won’t let her join in. She has told me that she plays okay with the boys but the girls. Today she told me one of the girls looked under the loo door and then told everyone about her knickers and they were all laughing at her.
She is 7 and I’m trying to offer advice, but I don’t know what to do. I moved from city to city, school to school growing up so never formed those critical friendships which means I don’t have close friends. I don’t want that for her, it can be very lonely.
Are there things I could do to help her? I’ve tried to be friendly with the parents of some of the kids but they haven’t been very friendly back. I’ve tried a few play dates and their kids come over but they never return the invite to my daughter.
Anyway, does anyone have tips or been through this and can offer advice? Thank you.
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Heart breaking- my little girl told me she has no friends
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Nanodust · 11/09/2018 21:27
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