Really hoping for some advice to potentially help us make a major decision. Currently living in London, DS is very settled at a large, diverse school with a very strong group of friends. He’s currently year 4.
I’ve potentially been offered a job ‘back home’ which is a smaller city, by the sea, closer to family etc. lots of positives about that. However, I am really worried about moving DS and how disruptive it would be for him. We’d be moving in time for him to start year 5 (hopefully we’d be able to apply over summer holidays and get a place – haven’t even looked into that part yet).
We don’t HAVE to move, me and DP both have stable jobs and live in a nice road, next to a park etc…we are not 100% sure if we want to leave London. However, it would give us more scope to potentially buy a house (never going to happen in london, slight possibility in new location) and at least the rent would be cheaper, it would be lovely to be near the sea. However, secondary schools are not as good and it’s definitely not as diverse a population…
DS is generally quite good at making friends but he is a sensitive soul and he had quite a few ups and downs whilst settling into school in years 1&2. I just imagine all the friendship groups being quite fixed by year 5 and him struggling to fit in… He’s going to be devastated at the thought of leaving his friends, and I worry about his progress at school and him being really unhappy – it’s breaking my heart to even think about it.
We just don’t know what the right thing to do is… whether to stick where we are and continue to pay huge rent and not really progress anywhere – but have access to good schools, or to take a risk and uproot us all?
Has anyone else moved their child’s school at this stage? Could do with some reassurance that we’re not going to scar him for life if we decide to go for it…
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Moving schools year 5 - help!
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jobnockey · 05/06/2018 14:47
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