Hello,
I'm driving myself mad with the amount of research I'm doing and taking on board the advice I'm being giving (more than when I had a newborn and that's saying something!)
With regards to us being out of catchment:
We live 300m away from our closest school and I can get to the school gate in a 1 minute walk. It's one of the best in the area and has notoriously been oversubscribed. We are the first house on the road from the official catchment. Our catchment school is approximately a 20 minute walk away and there is another very good school approximately a 15 minute walk away.
In 2016 our 1st born got a place at our closest school. The catchment area had been decreased massively due to it's previous over subscription and we and approximately 8 others out of catchment got into a class of 30.
Those out of catchment with siblings were advised that due to the catchment area being shrunk so much it was highly likely the siblings would get a place. So many of us accepted.
We accepted due to a number of reasons including it was our first child, we really didn't fully understand the long-term ramifications of our decision and we'd have been daft (hindsight hey?) to not accept the school a 1 minute walk away instead of dragging a 4/5 year old on a 20 minute walk.
Since the catchment shrinkage, the last 3 years has seen all catchment children get a place, all siblings (in or out) and everything has been hunky-dory.
This year something has massively changed - and our 2nd child hasn't been offered a place. Neither have 10 catchment children or a further 2 siblings out of catchment.
The school our 2nd child has been offered isn't catchment but the 15 minute walk away. It's a great school, obviously not our first choice, so I enquired if our 1st born could move there and it's a no. Class is full - in all honesty I would rather not do that anyway as fully settled and we all adore the school.
I'm holding out for the waiting list following the refusal ... but I'm guessing we'll be at number 11 due to out of catchment but living the closest out of the siblings.
Unless they all go private and offered children turn down their place ... I know what I'm up against.
There's 2 years between my same sex siblings and although yes I have no idea how I'd split myself in 2, get 2 children to school on time, embrace 2 schools fully, or fund required childcare etc ... I'm not alone and it's not grounds for an appeal.
But if I don't try to appeal for my children so close in age to go to the closest school to our house for the majority of both their primary school life ... I couldn't say I'd given it my best shot.
I'm going to put both on each others waiting list and I've accepted the place so at least I'm not cutting my nose off ...
Emotionally they are inseparable - yes they fight like cat and dog but nothing or no-one would separate them as they're thick as thieves.
My youngest is at the school gates every morning and every evening - thinking that's the 'big school' they're heading for in September.
Eldest cannot wait to have a sibling at school just like all the others - it sounds a bit 'Walton's' - but all siblings come together in groups and all play together at breaks and lunchtime. The majority of playdates etc are with siblings ... it's a close-knit school and I'm just struggling to face that my 2nd may not be a part of this.
I'm not stupid and I know a successful appeal is unlikely, but I also know that sometimes they are granted on the emotional impact on siblings ... therefore is there anyone out there that has any positive stories and top-tips with what to focus on within my appeal? I've written loads but the next day I doubt every point I've made!
Can I use distance? And close sibling attachment?
Thanks in advance for any help!
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Appeal advice please: Sibling out of catchment (300m away) but 1st born in Year 1
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Playdohonmysocks · 20/04/2018 13:59
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