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Holy communion gift to a child of my friend

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schooling123 Wed 03-May-17 07:20:27

Have been invited to 1st holy communion to a child of my friend. The child is alao one of best friends to my sin. What shall i buy?

Mamabear12 Wed 03-May-17 07:36:16

When I was little I received a bible for kids, which I still have now and will pass on to my kids. There are many other religious books as well I bought for my kids with bible stories. You could also buy a rosary, religious necklace (w one of the saints).

ScarlettDarling Wed 03-May-17 07:39:55

What about a small silver cross and chain like this one

ScarlettDarling Wed 03-May-17 07:41:10

If you look at the catholic gift shop you will find lots of ideas.

HorraceTheOtter Wed 03-May-17 07:43:16

I tend to give silver standard Christopher things for holy communion.

HorraceTheOtter Wed 03-May-17 07:43:43

Bloody phone! Saint Christopher.

noramum Wed 03-May-17 09:18:24

I personally would stay away from religious gifts, they are normally done by parents/close family/god parents. Also some churches give bibles as gifts.

We gave DD's best friend a photoframe with a photo of them together. We chose one she can use for years to come, not too childish and no writing like "first communion" etc on it.

AnneElliott Wed 03-May-17 09:25:53

We normally buy a St Christopher or a missal but will check with the family first. We get them from the shop in our church.

TheWoollybacksWife Wed 03-May-17 09:26:22

We always give £10 in a card. Cash gifts are fairly standard - at least in my family/wider circle.

When my children made theirs they received mostly money. Half for saving, half for spending. Rosary beads from Granny.

Bringmesunshite Wed 03-May-17 09:27:34

If you are not especially religious, not sure a religious themed gift is the way to go.
If you want to get him a keepsake, don't focus on a religious one.
Money is perfectly acceptable in my view or no gift at all. I'm RC, btw.

Tobuyornot99 Wed 03-May-17 09:38:06

Cash in a card is grand, they are inundated with the usual gifts from godparents and family usually.

wigglesrock Wed 03-May-17 11:00:13

For communion it's always money among my family and friends. One of my daughters got a lovely pair of earrings from a very close relative. Godparents/grandparents do the cross and chain, rosary beads but friends, aunts - usually anywhere from £10 in a card. Although one of my mums neighbours bought my eldest "fancy" stationery - a journal, grown up pens grin, nice notebooks etc for her communion. She wasn't comfortable giving money, my daughter loved it.

user1495009974 Wed 17-May-17 10:22:14

Outfits,one of the best gift idea for all time. Do visit the link to buy designer kids fashion clothes and children's wear online.

Rainatnight Wed 17-May-17 10:28:02

There's a lovely book called 'Dear Pope Francis: the Pope answers letters from children around the world'. I've given that very successfully.

trollopolis Wed 17-May-17 10:35:32

That online Catholic gift shop is amazing?

Luminous statues and Lourdes soap!

nocampinghere Wed 17-May-17 11:40:53

i bought these communion gift boxes as presents. They've been fab - used to store all the little trinkets, cards etc they get for their HC.
you can also get them through notonthehighstreet

chantico Wed 17-May-17 11:52:58

I think the only clothes for First Communion would be the traditional white(ish) frock for girls and suit/smart for boys, and that would be given by the parents.

I don't think designer clothes would strike the right note at all (better just FC card with money in it than that)

Gooseygoosey12345 Wed 17-May-17 12:10:13

Money is normally the done thing where I'm from

babybouncer Wed 17-May-17 12:19:43

So I'm not a Christian, but have been to several friends' kids christenings and first communions. I tend to choose a good book - an atlas, poetry anthology etc. My friends know me, and don't expect a religious gift (and it would feel weird to give it), but I think a gift of some kind is important. For a christening I've also done a charity gift (like a safe birth kit for a mother-to-be in the Sudan).

totallyzonkedout Wed 17-May-17 16:49:00

I personally tend to like giving personalised gifts like this but one of my favourite gifts given to my son (although it was his christening) was a Star in his name, and for my daughter it was a set of Winnie the pooh books

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