So, at parents evening we were told that DS has been leaving out another child in his friendship group, and encouraging other children in the friendship group to do the same.
Apparently, the children are taught in school that if they don't want to play with another child, then it is okay to say so. I know that he has issues with this boy, even thought they are friends. He does find him annoying at times (DS's word), and he has said that this other boy always wants to give him the rubbish roles in their games, or to determine how things are done, and my DS doesn't agree. My assumption is that they both like to be reasonably dominant in their circle of friends. However, clearly this is becoming a problem as my DS has developed a way of managing this issue which is totally not acceptable, and which isn't kind. They apparently still get on within the classroom, but I want to work on reversing the playground behaviour.
We are going to talk to him, about the fact that he can choose not to play with the other boy, but what my DS can't do is then expect to play a big group game. If they are playing group games, then everyone needs to be included. If they are playing in pairs, or smaller groups, that is okay. But, although I can tell him this, I think it would be good to try and develop his sense of compassion or empathy. Any suggestions on how to develop this in a KS1 boys? Thanks!
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Whattodosue · 26/04/2017 12:30
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