Hi everyone
I was just wondering if anyone had good recommendations for any books/resources/out of school activities to help my DS cope better with school? He is about to turn 5 but is I think fairly immature emotionally for his age and is struggling with aspects of school, particularly playtime.
The main issue seems to be that his best friend for the last 4 years is excluding him from his old friendship group - there is quite a bit of whispered name calling/saying DS has no friends by this boy and encouraging other children to call my DS names/not play with him if my DS is trying to play with another child. DS seems to react initially by roaring ( pretending he is a dinosaur) but then if it continues ( or sometimes even if it doesn't) he will push/pull someone 5 minutes later and get into trouble.
His teacher is lovely and the situation seems not too bad in the classroom but is not good in the playground. Some of this is also initiated by my DS as well - particularly in a big group he will sometimes push someone if he gets a bit upset/doesn't get his way. So the situation with his old friends is difficult for him ( and makes me so sad - he often cries about it at night ) but I think at least some of it isn't helped by how he behaves. He is popular with other children but can't seem to make the move to play with them instead.
I have spoken to school about the situation with the other boy, but I feel like there is only so much they can do in the playground ( particularly as the name calling is often whispered). I'd really like to try and help DS deal with things better as I don't think the school can really resolve this.
Sorry that was very long but I was just wondering if anyone could recommend any good books or even activities that I could maybe read/take him to that might help him learn to express and manage his emotions better and maybe make him more secure in himself?
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Books/resources to help 5 year old with emotions
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Greydiddi · 24/02/2017 20:11
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