My DD is just 7 and in year 2. She has never been the gregarious type but is okay once familiar with a situation. She undertakes swimming lessons and attends Rainbows. Both of which she loves and takes fully part in.
It was parents evening this week. She has dipped down in her grading from virtually at the top to middling. All the teachers (there are 2 teachers who split the role) focused on was her shyness and poor writing.
Her writing isn't great. It was lovely in reception, dipped in Y1 and hasn't improved. Even when she takes her time at home it can be lovely then get gradually worse with poor letter formation and increasing size.
However, she is on white/gold band reading books. She has just read The Minpins to me and was very good. She has a really good grasp of books and understands what she reads.
Her timetables (2, 5, 10) are very good and she can answer questions from me that are contextualised. She is good at addition, not so great at subtraction.
She likes sport and is okay at it.
The teachers didn't spend long with me as were running late. I should have had 10mins but had about 6. I was the last and I know they were tired but they were so unenthusiastic. I left feeling totally disheartened.
They forgot to give her a head teachers award the week before half term. I know they were busy but something like that would mean so much to my DD. Without my reminder they wouldn't have remembered.
I'm really concerned there is something underlying going on. Any ideas?
I am going to ask for another meeting as they didn't make me feel they were addressing anything and were just letting it go. Am I like looking for too much? I don't want to become the awkward parent but either do I want her to slip away.
There appears to be a divide between her ability at school and home.
Sorry for the huge post! Any thoughts really welcomed.
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Shy and unconfident DD
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MerryRealisation · 23/02/2017 20:54
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