DS 9 has been part of a group of friends since pre-school. Two boys who were not part of this group (one of them is very possessive towards the other) have recently had a fall out and no longer talk to each other, DS was also friends with one of these two boys (the one who isn't possessive). DS and this boy have been playing together a lot since, they share similar interests so get along really well.
The possessive boy has joined the original group of ds's friends and all of a sudden this group are excluding ds and are being nasty to him.
My gut is telling me that the possessive boy is orchestrating this social exclusion of ds, to make him leave his original friend all alone... ds would never do this, it's not in his nature. DS tells me "they are trying to stop me being friends with *** but I won't do that mum". He definitely now feels excluded from the original group but at the same time doesn't seem really unhappy about it.
Firstly are 8/9 year old boys even capable of this degree of manipulation of other children and secondly should I do anything or let things play out and see what happens.
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bookeatingboy · 11/01/2017 22:53
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