Hi,
Would really like some advice on my situation please.
My DS started reception in sept( he was 4 in June). Since then there have been 7 occasions in 5 weeks where he has got angry with another child n tried hitting them. When he is told of by the teacher he tries to lash out.
After the first 3 occasions he was put on half days for a week starting from the next week. No letter home just a meeting at school to tell me. I disagreed and asked if on a day he was naughty cud i come get him after lunch so he could learn actions have consequences. Also explained that i had just started a new job as have been a SAHM for 4 years so had applied for jobs knowing my youngest would be in full time education.
I also asked for their help in ways i could teach him and help him overcome this as he is really good at home.
Was basically told no it had to be half days for a week and got no help with ways to work with my DS at home to overcome this problem.
By myself i searched google for ways and things to implement at home to help my child and have seen a good improvement at home. He now goes 3 or 4 days at school behaving and then he is naughty again. Today he pushed another child because he was playing with his best friend and again tried hitting the teacher when she told him off. He was then taken to the inclusion manager who told him off and he tried hitting her and throwing things.
Got a phone call saying i had to come get him and he was excluded for tomorrow.
When i got him the teacher took me into office and has now said he will be on half days for 2 weeks and they are moving him into the year 1 class to seperate him and his best friend. They have noticed all his bad behaviour is caused by jealousy when other children are near his best friend.
My DS is now really worried about tomorrow as he doesnt know anyone in year 1 and none of the teachers.
Im really concerned this isnt the best way but havent really been given a choice as the only alternative given was exclusion.
Im so upset. Im trying so hard to help my DS at home but dont know what else to do. I understand his behaviour wont change overnight but i have had to give up my job because school always say he may have to go home at lunch if he naughty so cant work my shift incase they call.
Any advice would be wonderful so my DS and me can overcome this problem.
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Bad behaviour in Reception... moved to year 1
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Laijen0622 · 13/10/2016 17:12
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