How's the school start gone for those who have very recently turned 4?
In our area we were unable to a reception start if we deferred until he was at school age, so my end of August just turned 4 year old has started school full time this September.
Since starting, of course he is tired and although he is managing, it's like part of his brain has been wiped out - he doesn't listen, can't seem to get on with basic tasks like he used to, his attention span seems shorter and he isn't motivated / incentivised as before. I feel we have gone backwards - in fact I can't recall him being this way before!
The school he attends has a very laid back / confusing approach I feel and they spend just 10 minutes each day focusing on learning phonics, the rest of the time the children can pick what they do ( lego is the main option for my boy!) and there is little structure, it's all child led. For behavior, there is no good or bad, kids are "above or below the line" and are informed as such.
This all sounds chilled out and full of fun and freedom, but I am concerned that we will have to rely on time at home to get the key learning done to progress him and keep him up, when he is tired in the evenings or at the weekends. The school just waits until they are "ready" and apparently they are not concerned if a child doesn't read or write until age 7!
Even since starting school I feel we have already lowered expectations for him because of his young age compared to rest of the class and he will obviously choose to play given no direction, so he is kind of getting less help when he needs more. He is also a child that thrives when he knows what's going on, what's expected of him and some structure.
I don't know whether to go into some kind of learning overdrive at home or just take a step back completely as it all seems to be out of my control anyway.
It seems ridiculous to worry about the learning at home knowing they are messing round at school all day for most of the week at their prime time!
He is enjoying school and making friends which is good, I just don't know where my clever little boy who gets on with stuff has gone or what to do :( Perhaps I am expecting too much.
And I know that if he had started school next year, things now and the outlook for the future would be very different.
How's anyone else getting on?
Or anyone dealt with this in the past?
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earlgreymarl · 23/09/2016 11:23
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