Hi everyone
I'm a single mother to a lovely 6 year old girl. In the beginning of her education, she was sent to an English speaking nursery, but she was getting bullied there and had a fight on my hands just to get her to go to school everyday, which was obviously heartbreaking for me. I made the decision to start her in a Welsh speaking school from reception age. Having had a fully welsh education myself, without any trouble keeping up with the pace, I thought my daughter would be the same. However, she has been struggling more than I had anticipated
I feel like I've let her down as it was me who made the decision to move her schools. There were other English speaking schools in the area, but I sent her to a Welsh one instead. The teachers haven't said she's struggling, but in my own mind I feel that she is. She's one of the only kids in her class that hasn't come home with a certificate for speaking welsh, I struggle to get her to speak even basic welsh with me at home, and it's only going to get harder. On a positive note, her welsh reading seems to be really good, she flies through the books they give her. They don't start English reading in her school until year 3, and I'm really worried that she's going to struggle with it. I see other parents from her last school and their kids are on really high level reading books, but my little girl struggles with the basic ones. I've made a chart at home for reading English books in the hope that it encourages her, but it doesn't seem to be having the effect I'd hoped for. I feel like I'm failing as her parent, and it's a horrible feeling
Have I made the right decision to send her to a Welsh speaking school? Was it being selfish for wanting her to have the opportunites that I had being in a Welsh school? Am I expecting too much from her? I know all kids develop at different stages, but it feels awful when others seem to judge me by the lack of English reading skills that my child has in comparison to theirs.
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Did I make the right decision?
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Purplexpenguinxhelen · 20/06/2016 13:20
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