Hello, I would be grateful for some perspective.
My son is in reception. His schools give golden stars when they do good work. The aim is to reward them for their effort and improving on things they have done or for doing something kind, etc. It is apparently not a comparison with their peers.
However, I can't help but think that the kids who get a lot of stars must be the overall the best students in his class. My son does get stars but there are a couple of kids that get quite a lot.
My son has asked me why did he not get as many stars as his friends and I found it tricky to explain to him. The teachers say my son is doing very well but I think if he is, then why isn't he getting as more stars.
Am I placing too much weight on these stars? Do others have any experience of this reward system and what are your thoughts on it?
I'm a bit embarrassed to ask because I may come across as unncessarily competitive. I am just trying to understand what to make of this star system and what it means for how well my son is doing compared to his peers.
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MsGus · 29/05/2016 21:28
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