Any advice appreciated.
DS age 9 is in yr4. He is at a high achieving school which we are increasingly realising is because it is very 'hot house'ish.
DS is bright and achieving well but very sensitive and mildly dyslexic. His self esteem has taken a battering over the years and at stressful times eg tests. School plays as have weeks of moodiness, tears and him declaring that he hates himself and is stupid. He won't join in any extra curricular stuff because it is all very competitive and he is intimidated by this. He had signs of anxiety ev poor sleep patterns loss of appetite.
We have felt for a while that he needs to move and put his name on the waiting list for some local schools.
We had a call last week from one to offer him a place. We went for a look and it seemed nice.
Here's the thing. He has only ever known His current school he is at from nursery and I think will say he doesn't want to move.
DH and I firmly believe he needs to ... I honestly feel his mental health / happiness is being damaged by the current school. But I don't want him to feel we are making him moved school against his wishes. Whenever he had s bad day ( and he will, af any school) he will feel like it is all our fault.
Also, his current school is highly regarded. He is starting to become aware of this and I'm worried he will feel he's not good enough for his current school if he moves.
Any advice from people who've been in similar situations would be very appreciated... Thanks.
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user1463172942 · 15/05/2016 16:55
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