Hi, not really sure where to start! I also hope that my post makes sense as I'm sleep deprived.
My son is in year 4 and I'm having problems with play dates. After a bit of a wobble in year 3 (friendship split duevto moving up to junior school, infant is on the same site). DS has settled in nicely in Yesr 4 and seems to be well liked by his peers and his teacher says that he always has friends to play with at break time. My issue is that I invite his friends over for play dates yet he never gets invited back. One mum in particular left her son with me over the summer 2-3 times whilst she was working & promised to invite DS, invitation never materialised! DS wants to invite her son over again, I asked the mum and she said yes please he'd love to come to yours!!! I'm now telling DS that that particular boy is not coming over as his mum is having play dates but again my DS is not invited.
My question is what should I do? Keep inviting boys over to mine even though it seems that his friends do not extend the invitation? The mums & the boys who come seem keen & happy when they are invited over. DH says that I need to keep the playdates going for DS's sake (he's a sensitive boy) but I find it tiresome especially with a 9 month old baby.
Is he not getting invited because I'm in the clique of the popular mums? Does this still go on? I thought that by year 4 the bits decide who to invite & their mums no longer choose - or am I being naive?
Really not sure what I'm expecting from posting on here but TIA for any potential advice.
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LondonSuperTrooper · 16/01/2016 01:45
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