My dd is having a bit of a time at school at the moment. She's 8 yo and is in y3. It's entirely relevant to state that dd is pretty much top of the class across the board - and is gifted and talented in some areas - and is excelling in a number of extra-curricular activities too.
Since reception, she's had something of a love/hate relationship with another girl. This girl is also intelligent and like dd, successful in most areas. She's also a very strong character whereas my dd can be more sensitive. This other girl, lets call her F, is incredibly jealous of my dd's achievements - which she is generally very quiet about - and has been really quite awful about them to the point where dd was wanting to give up a much-loved hobby that they share. Mercifully the organisers of the hobby worked swiftly when I spoke with them so that's all fine now.
F is sarcastic, rude and tries to take dd's best friends away from her (they've backed this up when the teacher spoke to them). She accuses dd of lying about anything she's done outside of school, swimming badges for example. F shoved her out of the way last week.
I'm not friendly with the mum who has also been staggeringly rude to me, for example commenting unkindly on what dd eats, making a fuss to me about the part my dd got in a play and will talk over me to other parents.
The class teacher is involved, as is the pastoral support manager, but F is targeting dd at break times and lunch, and when dd tells a dinner lady she's told to go and play nicely. Dd has been told to tell her teacher - I was there at the meeting - but she's finding this very, very difficult. Moreover, it's a significantly large primary that they have specialist staff for some sessions so she can't always.
I'm trying to teach her coping mechanisms, but I'm at a loss now, and I'm heartbroken that my dd, who loves to learn, doesn't want to be at school.
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Friendship problems and an upset dd [long]
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2ndSopranosRule · 08/12/2015 12:28
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