DS was so excited about starting school, he's confident and friendly and nursery told me he was probably the most 'ready' of all the children leaving to start school.
He went in fine on day one, no tears, just really excited. On day two I think he felt hurried in and wanted to keep saying goodbye. I didn't leave straight away (I know) and he ended up being picked up by the classroom assistant and dragged away literally kicking and screaming. Yesterday he was dragged in again and since coming home yesterday he's been tearful saying he doesn't like school and doesn't want to go back, that he wants to stay with me etc. Today was the worst yet. He really seems to panic saying goodbye but I'm assured that he's fine as soon as he's calmed down inside and has a great day.
He's a fan of routine and we had a little ritual when I dropped him at nursery (just waving through a certain window) - one time I got distracted and he had a bit of a meltdown like I've seen this week.
I can't be on my own here - I'm being told by everyone that he'll be fine, it'll get better and I know it will, but I wondered of anyone else had any tips? I think what we need to crack is distracting him from the 'I don't like school' conversation and also figuring out a goodbye 'routine' that works.
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nomoreminibreaks · 11/09/2015 09:45
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