I know I'm in danger of coming across as that parent, but I have a very upset dd and my heart is breaking, so please be nice.
DD1 is 7 (Y2) and a sensitive soul. She's also incredibly bright (not just our opinion; she's one of the highest achievers in her year in a number of areas) so over-thinks.
Last week at school, DD was duped into making an obscene gesture by some of the kids in her class. They had a pretend argument about which is your middle finger, and DD (who at seven doesn't know about these things) showed them all. Of course these little swines children ran straight to the TA to say that Manchesterdd swore. She didn't get into trouble - the TA said "never mind, it's a mistake, you aren't a sweary girl" - but DD was ever so upset.
I really want to talk to her teacher but DH says leave it, and is concerned that we have sheltered DD too much . I'm not stupid and I know they pick it all up, but at seven there's just no need, is there? We are careful about our language at home at least (dd was horrified when Mel B said "Bloody" on the X Factor - she knows the word is not nice but that some adults might say these things) as I just don't see the point in trotting out swear words.
Then, this weekend, dd1 had an upset stomach because she was so fretful about going to school. This time, one of her friends is "being mean". From what she says, it doesn't sound too terrible, but she's upset, and she just cannot cope with these situations. I am not prepared to tell her to pull herself together - in the manner of the 80s way of dealing with this type of thing that meant I spent most playtimes alone at primary school - but at the same time, I suppose she does need to take things on the chin a bit more.
What I really want is for their teacher to remind these kids to be nice to each other. DD loves school, but only the learning part, apparently.
All insights, even "pull yourself together", greatly appreciated.
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manchestermummy · 02/02/2015 09:29
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