I would really appreciate some thoughts on this one.
My daughter is in year one. She is really struggling and is in special needs groups for both literacy and maths. The school has very high expectations and is very highly regarded.
My daughter has no concept of maths whatsoever. It just hasn't clicked. She can't add on 1 for example. And yet whenever I am helping out in the classroom they are doing lots of whole class maths involving numbers to 100. It always makes me feel sad for her as she just sits there looking totally lost. And of course the gulf is growing.
She doesn't really have any friends. There are only 4 girls in her class and 26 boys; it's an unusual cohort for her year.
I have been working with her at home and in those areas she has improved so much. She works excellently on a one to one basis. Since September she has progressed from ort3 to ort8. Her writing has improved a lot in the areas we have covered. I haven't done very much maths with her yet but will be this term.
My daughter says she would like to stay at home. Part of me thinks she has been labelled at school and she will never catch up as she has too much of a gap now. The majority of the learning is now galloping away from her regardless of the few extra lessons. I feel if I home educated her for a year I could fill in the missing bricks. I am a teacher so know the curriculum quite well and teaching strategies.
But it's a serious decision. It's a very good school and has a huge waiting list. But I just don't feel she is thriving there. I feel she is just failing slowly but surely and the longer she stays there the more she will fall. The teacher is marvellous but at the end of the day there are 30 children to cater for and they are all doing better.
My dh is leaving the decision to me as he things being a teacher I should know!! Although he is adamant changing schools is not a viable option as this school is so well regarded and has amazing sats scores.
I want to do what is right for her but what that is I just can't decide.
We are probably moving anyway in the next year. But I feel time is crucial here as year one is a hugely significant year academically.
I would hugely appreciate any thoughts on this one. Thank you!!
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fullcircleagain · 29/12/2014 02:01
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