Yesterday I came across a paper mask my 5 yr old DD had made. She had written on it " I hate myself". I asked her about it, saying it was a very sad thing to read. She said she hadn't wanted me to find it.
We talked about it and she said she felt like this at the beginning of the school day, and also when she couldn't "do big numbers". Everyone else in her class can do them. She also says she can't read well either.
Now she can read, very well, I've taught her. After having battles with the school on their mixed methods approach I took matters into my own hands, in what I thought was a very low key way. Maths I know nothing about, but talking it through with her it seems she is very fuzzy on the basics. She doesn't seem to understand what we used to call hundreds, tens and units. She can count from 0 to 100, like its a song, but can't start at random numbers and count on.
Anyway, we can deal with that. I'll get a subscription to maths factor and we will learn maths together from the beginning.
I've told her that it doesn't matter what anyone else can do. But if she doesn't understand something she must ask. We go to school to learn new things, and we all learn things at different speeds.
She doesn't like going into a school, never really has. This was never a problem during her two years at nursery. She is always loath to leave school at the end of the day. She seems to like and be liked by most children, I'd go as far as to say she was popular -I feel I can say this as I was very unpopular ;)
I suppose I'm posting because I don't know what the hell to do. I'm heart broken that I have a wonderful, funny, bouncy, independent 5 year old who is this unhappy. Do I tell the school-what if they get social services involved?! Or am i overreacting, it just seems pretty awful to me. The teacher is nice but NQT- I know the head finds me a difficult parent.
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"I hate myself" Y1
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FobDodd · 23/11/2014 18:46
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