I'm guessing this is fairly typical for a child of this age, but I can't get DS motivated to do anything for himself. Homework, including so-called 'independent learning projects' require me to stand over him going over everything step by step, even sporting activities that he loves don't get practised at home without a battle. All he's wants to do is watch tv or play computer games (already limited), go out on his bike or play - fine with those but not at the expense of everything else!
I'm at the stage of just wanting to cancel his extra-curricular activities (the expensive one in particular they does require practise) unless he puts in the effort outside class & leaving his homework & letting him explain to the teacher why he's not done it.
Am I expecting too much or should he start taking responsibility?
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Lack of self-motivation in 9 yr old DS
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PhoebeMcPeePee · 01/11/2014 09:43
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