Our situation, I will try to be as factual as possible:
- DS1 is 7 (Y2) and in an 'Outstanding', large, village primary school, entered it from the onsite preschool and it was a happy transition
- He's always done very well, exceptionally so at Maths where he has been in a top Y3/4 Maths class since Sept
- Was put on "G&T" list in Y1 for maths, literacy and something else, but have not had any other feedback about this, so I'm not entirely sure what this means
- We are generally very happy with the school, except we feel he's not reaching his potential
- He seems less enthusiastic about school work since being one of the older ones (mixed year groups) complaining about "easy" things
- Shows an aptitude for music
- Loves football, but no real sport at school, just PE twice a week
- He is very happy and settled at school with lots of friends, and it is a massive part of my social structure/life/whatever you call it (SAHM)
- Up the road is an 'Outstanding' prep school, have heard only the highest praise for it. Max 17 per class, lots of sport, 3 music lessons a week, specialist subject teachers from Y3, and all the other things you would expect from a private school.
- A large % go on to the grammar school, which is v selective and where we had in mind for DS1, compared to 3 out of 90 for this years Y6 at his current school
- About a month ago we started talking about the private school again (had considered it at preschool/reception age), and 2 weeks ago, spur of the moment we entered him for an Academic scholarship, on a scholarship test day.
- He was given an Academic scholarship!
- We can afford it (although actually spending the money would hard - we both come from poor backgrounds!)
- The scholarship sort of justifies it in my mind and would make it easier for me to tell people! I do worry about what people are going to think, which is stupid I know.
- I'm genuinely torn (DH isn't - he seems to have decided yes).
- Although he's got loads of friends, he's a really sociable little chap and I really think he would make new ones easily. He would still see all his current friends at Beavers and at football, and we can still have them round, etc
- I really want him to have the best education (and not just academically)
What would you do in this situation?
(Sorry it's long, thank you if you read this far!)