Hi,
Last week I had a parent-teacher consultation for DD who is 4 and at pre-school, linked to a primary school. DD is misbehaving at Nursery; occasionally doing unkind or stupid things like throwing sand or hitting. She does this at home too, has always been like this.
I am NOT in denial about this....I told them before she started Nursery that she was bright but liked to push the boundaries. And that I was strict with her because of it. I do not let her get away with hitting, hurting etc. And they said her behaviour at Nursery was not too bad, otherwise they would have told me before.
We did have a long conversation about what I could do at home to improve things and I said I would take on board these things.
The teachers follow the same discipline technique as me - warning and then time out. But they say (I agree) that on asking her WHY she has done something naughty, she replies "I don't know"....and both they and I believe her - she really doesn't appear to know. So I know I have some work to do.
But I am wondering - I have told them several times that DD seems to be a natural reader. She can 'just' read. She has been lapping it up when her older siblings 'teach' her phonics. And she races through their reading homework (reception level). Last night she read sentences in a book like "On Tuesday my little sister broke my model. I felt cross. On Friday I lost my teddy bear. I felt lonely". I feel that she is probably on Year One (??) reading level without much teaching from me.
I asked Nursery whether they thought there might be merit in trying to run with this reading skill - letting her read at Nursery, perhaps 10 minutes 1-to-1 with a teacher sometimes, really praising her for her reading, to try to improve any negative feelings she has. BUT the teacher said they just don't do reading at Nursery because "it spoils the experience in Reception". So they don't even do vowels, or the first phonics - nothing.
My friend is a nursery teacher and she says go back to them and tell them to do reading with her. I don't want to upset the apple cart but my friend says that DD is bored. I don't necessarily feel that she is bored, but I do feel that if I can take on board their suggestions for home/parenting, they could take on board my suggestion to push her self-esteem with some reading.
What are your views please?
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Andratx · 30/03/2013 18:25
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