DD is in year 5. All through primary she has never been the star child, she works quite hard, does some sport and is quite well mannered etc. she is also quiet, calm and content with life. I wouldn't say she massively lacks confidence though normally, she is quite happy to take on speaking parts in plays.
She said she just doesn't want to always have the spotlight on her and she just wants to be like everyone else. She has been asked to be head girl but is certain she doesn't want to do it. She has spent this evening writing this letter to her head teacher explaining why not. I thought she was ok but she just came and cried to me. I can't work out if it is confidence thing or just being happy as she is.
While she is (maybe I'm a biased mum ;)) a lovely and talented and popular girl, she just isn't the typical 'head girl' type who does every sport/music/drama activity and is super confident. Half of me thinks will she regret this but half of me thinks it is frankly ridiculous having head girl/boy of a primary school and pretty irrelevant!
I've tried encouraging her but she is adamant she just doesn't want to do it.
Dear Mr ... ,
Thank you for offering me the chance to be Head Girl, it is really kind that you think I would be a good pupil for the job. I have thought about it a lot over the weekend and decided I am not able to accept the job. I love ... Primary School and while representing the school would be an honor I feel I would rather have a smaller responsibility like being a school council rep or tuck shop monitor. I know there are lots of other Year 5 Girls who would love to be Head Girl and hope you will allow me to swap responsibilities with one of them.
Should I go and talk to the school and see if they agree she should be just listened to and her wishes respected?
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DD been asked to be Head Girl, she doesn't want to.
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Igloo100 · 03/03/2013 19:38
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