This is the first time I am posting - so please be gentle with me! I am hoping to get some advice and guidance. Having read through so many posts I know that I am coming to the right place.
My DD is in Y1 of a co-ed private school. The school has a good history although far more boys than girls and their results are good. I have several concerns and I am not sure what to do.
The classes are not streamed and far more attention is given to the children that need more help in reaching a certain standard. This in turn has affected the well abled children who want to go further. Having asked the teachers about this, they are not giving an answer which makes me feel that what they are doing is OK. I kind of feel that my DD has less interest in studying than she had in Reception which was a fab year with an excellent teacher. Y1 teacher is completely unapproachable and the school supports her decisions and her mannerism and don't seem to take on board what the parents say. It is like banging your head against a brick wall.
I have heard however, that it is well worth staying on for Y2 as the teacher is very good!
Many girls seem to leave our school at 7+ but no one really says why. The boys do very well getting into schools such as Habs, Merchant Taylors, John Lyon etc.
I have other concerns such as quite a few of the children in her class are disruptive and quite naughty which I feel really does affect the progress in the class. The teachers are strict but it seems to take a long time to action the negative things that happen in class. There are a few children with learning difficulties to which I do not have a problem with them being in the class but I do have a problem with it when the teachers who are meant to be teaching my child, end up paying more attention to the other chidlren.
My main concern is that I am not entirely sure that the school she goes to is the right school especially for 7+. Ideally, I would like her to go to somewhere like Northwood College or St Helens or even NLCS but my honest feeling is that I am scared how she will fit in with so many girls with such strong characters. My DD is quiet but confident and chooses her friends very carefully. I also feel that lack of number of girls, forces my daughter to be friends with someone who she would otherwise not choose to be friends with.
I could go on - sorry! It's easy to pick the negatives!
Am I being silly? Sometimes I think I am concerned about my fears rather than having the confidence to know that my DD will be OK whichever school she goes to.
I am worried that we wont be able to "keep up with the Jones'" if we go to somewhere big like St Helens or NLCS.
Please could you give me some advice?
Thank you!
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kitty0510 · 24/01/2013 11:25
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