There's a problem with my ds's primary school teacher. We have complete communication breakdown and I'm not the only parent who is p*** off with her but don't know what to do to remedy the situation.
It's a new teacher to the school and I tried hard to get her to feel welcome - but you can tell she's inexperienced, but that's fine.
Problem is her communication with parents is poor - she never comes out of class to chat to us. And then the bad thing happened when I found out she accused me of hitting my son when i didn't! She picked up on an erroneous comment made during play and referred it to the (more experienced) welfare teacher who hauled me in for a meeting. It was all cleared up and she apologised for how it was handled.
Now I wanted to tell my ds's teacher that she needed to communicate with me better, if she had any concerns of my son's welfare - that he was upset BEFORE any talk of 'hitting' then she should have told me. I also wanted to clear the air with her cos I have the whole year to go. The meeting didn't go well as she was so defensive and was concerned about taking notes and saying that she was right to do what she did. It all made me angry (which i wasn't before the meeting) and now I don't talk to the teacher at all.
What to do? mediation or just leave it?
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squareheadcut · 29/11/2012 10:34
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